Seduction Advice For Men

How To Get Hot Girls

seduction @ BusyThumbs — Fri, 02 May 2008 07:16:55 +0000

I like hot girls. Ever since discovering the skill set I don�t really bother with non hotties except as social circle. Why would you put all this work in to getting the skill set if you aren�t with the hottest of the hot?

Yup, that�s my girl.

So how can YOU get the same results? If, me � a super scrawny, pasty, balding, 35 year old - can get a model from a catalog you can do it too.

The answer to improved quality in women is Tight Game. With the basics like some transportation and a place of your own, the only thing stopping you from beautiful women is your skillset, aka your GAME. You�ve always gotta calibrate in field, and there are some extra rules you might want to know about handling hotties.

The first rule of mega hotties is that:

�You Can�t Mess Up-

They are intolerant of social errors. So to get to the level where you rarely, if ever, make a mistake you have to sarge a ton of 8s for practice. My first D2 with mega hottie was about 6 months into the game. I didn�t have the skill set to close her at the time but I had gotten far enough to at least get her to go out with me. Reducing social errors often goes back to having a solid foundation of game, you�ve gotta have the basics. I�m not going to list all of the rules to gaming high value women as they are all available in my ebook,(see the cover blog entry here) but I would like to emphasize some really important subcommunications when sarging mega hotties.

The second rule of mega hotties is:

Archive for May, 2007
How to Get Super Hot Girls, Part 1 of many
Thursday, May 31st, 2007

I like hot girls. Ever since discovering the skill set I don�t really bother with non hotties except as social circle. Why would you put all this work in to getting the skill set if you aren�t with the hottest of the hot?
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Yup, that�s my girl.

So how can YOU get the same results? If, me � a super scrawny, pasty, balding, 35 year old - can get a model from a catalog you can do it too.

The answer to improved quality in women is Tight Game. With the basics like some transportation and a place of your own, the only thing stopping you from beautiful women is your skillset, aka your GAME. You�ve always gotta calibrate in field, and there are some extra rules you might want to know about handling hotties.

The first rule of mega hotties is that:

�You Can�t Mess Up-

They are intolerant of social errors. So to get to the level where you rarely, if ever, make a mistake you have to sarge a ton of 8s for practice. My first D2 with mega hottie was about 6 months into the game. I didn�t have the skill set to close her at the time but I had gotten far enough to at least get her to go out with me. Reducing social errors often goes back to having a solid foundation of game, you�ve gotta have the basics. I�m not going to list all of the rules to gaming high value women as they are all available in my ebook,(see the cover blog entry here) but I would like to emphasize some really important subcommunications when sarging mega hotties.

The second rule of mega hotties is:

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-Keep Your Pimp Hand Strong!-

Mega hotties are big on misbehavior and all purpose frame jacking. Anytime she tries to steal frame or lead the conversation, you must KEEP THE PIMP HAND STRONG. You at the least need to demonstrate that you are deserving of the best behavior and of full compliance.

When you walk up to a high value hottie in attraction, it is likely that she will eventually neg you.. If she is being fun and playful with her neg then you will want to also return with a playful neg.. This subcommunicates that you are fun but you also don�t take -bleep-:

Her: �What is with those glasses?�

You: �Is somebody holding out on the remote for this girl?�

The other thing you want to do here is cut whatever thread she interrupted and go into something new. Otherwise you will have an impossible time staying on the previous subject without looking like you are trying too hard.

Once she likes you she is likely to take very aggressive control of the frame in moments just because she is having fun and adding value. Hot women have crazy social skills and are socially calibrated to know how to have fun. So expect to have her trying to steal your frame unintentionally where an HB8 never would.

The SHB girl will bring value to you that is so crazy positive that you can�t just steam roll right over that and keep with your thread (that would be AMOGing). She will either tell you to do something, or force her will on you with body language or just start some new and totally interesting thread that effectively trumps what you are saying (even though it may be on your thread�s topic). But if you fall into her frame you are being lower value (she wants you to be a leader, not her). Also, if you don�t bring the fun at the same level that she is brining it then you are losing value.

The key to handling these situations is to either qualify her (qualification just means you are judging something) for it or hoop her before you do what she asks. When done in specific ways you will bring even more fun into the conversation and lead her without AMOGing.

For example here is how to handle her frame stealing via qualification.

You: pirate story

Her: �Me and my ex went on a pirate cruise one time and � blah blah�

Then you would qualify with:

You: �You � would make a TERRible pirate! � wait maybe you have a shot � go like ARGHHH!� (you are leading the conversation and being fun)

Her: �ARGGHHHHH!� (she is now acknowledging you as the leader, you have frame control back again)

Here is another example at the last NYC bootcamp one of the students brought a friend who was a pro model (Victoria�s secret and a bunch of other stuff). She negged me a ton when she first met me (she doesn�t know what I do) but I kept messing with her right back. It only took a few minutes to get her attracted. Then she took one of those maraschino cherries that was in her drink and decided she wanted to feed me. If she was already working for me for a long time I would have let it happen but early in the set this was just a frame stealing attempt by giving me a compliance test. Instead I grabbed her hand and said, �Before you do that, you have to give me one compliment.� She replied, �You are awesome!� and I ate the cherry.

There is a lot more to picking up mega hotties than that but now you have 2 more tools to handle those kinds of women!

Mehow

PureKino Attraction

seduction @ BusyThumbs — Fri, 02 May 2008 07:12:41 +0000

I really love our tech team. They rock. They made this shiny new blog and the online content delivery system for all of our products! From one computer geek to another, mad respect!

They are all married though so only half my stuff applies to them. But this �first ever new blog entry� goes out to them anyway!!!

I know that most readers have very little time to read a blog and I wanted to make this first blog special so �

I�m going to teach you what I would teach someone if I only had 15 minutes to improve their game. The stuff I would teach a student if I could only teach them one thing. This is an excerpt from the draft of my upcoming ebook, �Get the Girl: A Pickup Artist�s Guide to Reclaiming Your Love Life.�

A lot of people ask me, �What is PureKino Attraction?� So far I�ve been dodging the question while all the patent paperwork got filed. But all that stuff is done now so here it is. There is A LOT to this approach but don�t worry, because I will give you everything you need to know to start DOING this stuff INFIELD TONIGHT.

Let me start by telling you how PureKino came about. Back when I was a newbie at this - I was very high energy. So high energy that I was essentially, a mid 30s, balding, pale, dancing monkey, when I would enter into a set. I would get a lot of spikey attraction and sometimes get the girl by using this to isolate and then do the real work in comfort.

Back in those days I was rolling a lot with my good friend and wing, Lovedrop from Venusian Arts.

Lovedrop always had some sort of secret plan that he wouldn�t tell me about until right when he sprung it on me in terms of getting me to the next level.

So one night when my dancing monkey was particularly acting up he followed me around the club telling me to be �chill� constantly.

When I did that half my sets didn�t hook at all and walked away wondering how a dork like me even got into such a swanky establishment and the other half of the sets would hook super hard.

So being chill made things solid IF IT HOOKED but otherwise I lost the set.

Back to the drawing board. Clearly hooking only half the time wasn�t acceptable.

I started to think about what are the most powerful attraction mechanisms available to us in a purely theoretical sense?

Here is what I came up with �

-Super tight �I live on planet Mehow and it�s a wild and fun place to be� sub-communications.
-Touching, lots of touching (kino) and compliance.

I learned this from being in field a ton - I noticed that when I did those things sets seemed more solid.

So then I started to think about how I could just run the entirety of attraction just by doing those two things and PureKino was born.

I call it that because with PureKino you can literally run an entire attraction phase entirely by touching and verbal plowing about whatever.

If you can get a large amount of touching and compliance in attraction you can effectively maximize the amount of �chill� you can bring into your game. This, along with excellent subcommunications, will allow you to win over sets with a great consistency. The result is super tight attraction.

You are going to have to make one pretty big leap of faith to get going with this stuff:

Forget DHV stories in attraction. In fact, for the sake of the exercise I�m about to give you � forget purely verbal routines. Period.

Yup, you can get TONS of SOLID attraction from women without FLIPPING a single traditional DHV switch (protector of loved ones, leader of men, pre-selection). Btw, I love DHV stories in comfort but I only use them in attraction when I can�t get logistics on kino.

Yup it�s that easy � all you have to do is touch all of the women in a set while running your mouth and let your �I live on MY planet and it�s a WILD and FUN place to be� sub-communications do the rest. Did I just say �Touch all the women in the set?� Yes, yes I did. That probably sounds scary to many of you. But I�m about to show you a way to do it that is easy and fun.

The best thing about PureKino is that the material teaches you how to BECOME WILD AND FUN. Then all the sudden you find yourself with super-ninja FUN skills that you can easily improvise at any moment. With that kind of energy; you can bring all of your other pickup skills to new levels as well. Hello exponential game growth.

The simple way to use this:

1. Open Direct to Group with a False Time Constraint.
2. Super playfully neg a target (secret to never getting this wrong contained below).
3. Do one or two PureKino Attraction routines.
4. Isolate and go into comfort.

Most of you are familiar with opinion openers and negging and then stacking to DHV stories because most of you know Mystery�s method. So I�m giving you the easiest way to take what you know and use PureKino Attraction.

This is really simple. So simple you probably figured it out already from the above 4 bullet points. You substitute a direct to group opener for the opinion opener, you substitute your regular neg for something very playful, you substitute PureKino attraction for DHV stories and BLAMO � you have girls all into you without them knowing a single fact about you.

Here is an example with each phase numbered. This example is best on an all girl 2 set.

Me: �You guys seem fun, I had to come over here and say hi � for a sec!� (1) � w light brief touching of the set right on the opener. Do this with direct body language. Just walk up, touch while you start talking. I changed my approach rule from �3 seconds� to �1 second� to facilitate this.
Set: �Hi!�
Me: �Oh Oh! THIS Girl � you must have been � the CUTEST � hall monitor in middle school!� (2)
Set: �Ya .. she was!�

Easy enough so far, right? Before we continue I have to tell you a secret to number 2. Change your neg from a straight neg like �Don�t make me come down there� to something that unmistakably sub-communicates playfulness and changes your OWN STATE to a playful one. You do this by negging with an IOI (Indicator of Interest) followed by an IOD (Indicator of Disinterest) so its like a push /pull (you can also do IOD/IOI). This way it�s just about impossible to miss-calibrate and make a girl furious at you. Just use an IOI before the usual negs you use like �You are totally fun � but don�t make me come down there and discipline you!� or �OK .. those nails are totally amazing � how did a space alien like you figure out how to put them on?�

Now we continue with this particular PureKino routine which I call �Group 3-7�

Me: �How long have you guys known each other?�
Set: �A while!�
Me: �Did you know that you guys could be psychic together?�
Set: �What?�
Me: �For shits and giggles were are going to find out if you guys are psychic together.�
Set: �Ok!�
Me: �Give me your hands!�
Set gives me their hands.
Me: �For this to work you guys have to hold hands as well.�
Set and I are now all holding hands. This is the point btw. I�m doing all this stuff to get a lot of totally un-creepy touching going in the first 30 seconds of the set. ALL I DO IS RUN MY MOUTH TO GET KINO AND COMPLIANCE.
Me: �Now we have formed a � psychic circle.�
I move their hands around slowly while holding them to give it a fun mystical sense and sub-communicate that I�m messing with them and having fun. (Key Point! Having Fun)
Me: �Ok � I want both of you to think of a number between 1 TWO .. 4 � the first number that pops into your mind � but don�t say anything.� (I let go of their hands as I�m doing this and I snap my fingers right when I would have said the number 3 .. then I grab their hands again). See I�m touching, letting go, touching, letting go. Is this sinking in?
Me: (hold their hands extra firmly) �Ok � you guys clearly got the number in your minds, right?�
Set: �Yes.� (more compliance)
Me: �Ok � now � girl on my left � what number were you thinking?�
Girl on left: �3.�
Set: �OMG! We are psychic together!�
Lots of hugging ensues and I let go of their hands and go to next PK routine or something different entirely.

Frequently you have enough attraction right there to have your wing come in and isolate with your target if it�s a 2 set. Sometimes you need another PureKino routine.

For this particular routine if one of the girls says some other number, you can handle it just like Mystery taught me for regular 3-7 with �See � that is empirical proof that ESP is bullshit.�

The verbals don�t really matter � you don�t need to have a psychic test � all you need is the kino and compliance and good sub-communications.

The best thing about this is that there are literally thousands of possible routines to use. This entire approach has been massively field tested by myself and my students and resulted in many wonderful relationships.

Mehow

seduction @ BusyThumbs — Sun, 30 Mar 2008 01:42:48 +0000

One of the toughest jobs I have as a teacher is getting my students to get past their old ideas of what is "possible" and "normal" with women, and try some very new stuff that may feel a bit strange, but actually works like crazy.

Listen: if you really want to make huge leaps in any area of life, then the key is not to keep doing what you have been doing or things that are very close to what you have been doing.

That will just keep getting you what you have been getting.

No, the key to huge leaps forward is to do things that may feel a bit unfamiliar, even a little strange. Because it is THOSE things that are so different from what you are used to DOING that can�..

Bring You The Results That Are So Different From What You Are Used To GETTING!

Doesn't that make sense?

So, now that I've convinced you(at least a little ways) to try on something new, here is a fantastic email testimonial I just received:

"Hey Ross,

I wanted to share an experience I had a couple of months ago.

I had just received the Fear into Charisma video(http://www.seductiontuition.com/speed-seduction) and I watched it before going to school.

I thought the main exercise was really weird but I tried it anyway.

About an hour after the exercise I arrived at school. I really wasn't thinking about women, until I noticed one girl kept staring at me as I was walking down the hallway. She looked like she was fascinated by me.

A couple of minutes later I needed to grab some books at the library. As I walked into the library a hot girl walked past me. I didn't pay much attention to her until I turned to my right and I noticed that she was still looking at me, it was like she couldn't keep her eyes off me.

I was getting the attention from girls I haven't normally gotten before.

But the weirdest thing was yet to come.

I was looking for a place to study when I walked past girls buried in their books. One girl was really hot and as I walked past her it was like more then just my attention was going into to her. It may sound new age/California but trust me I'm a down to earth, give me a big juicy steak (as you would say, Ross) and no tofu kind of guy.

But it was like our energies were intertwining. At the moment I felt our energies where totally intertwined I felt a little tug in my solar plexus.

At the some moment the hot chick looked up at me wondering what the f**k was happening.

I have to say, this is totally different from what I have experienced before, but it is awesome anyway!!!

I was wondering how I could make something like this repeatable? I do the Fear to Charisma exercises every day.

Eti�nne van de Leur Maastricht, The Netherlands"

Hey Etienne,

First of all, congratulations on challenging your own skepticism and actually getting off your butt and doing what I TOLD you would work!

Yes, it IS a weird feeling when this stuff that seems impossible actually, truly works!

But you'll get used to it, expect it and enjoy it!

Now, to answer your question: to make the results repeatable, do the exercises every day. If you don't want to fully do them, at least do a short version, every day, and a few days a week, do the full blown Monty. The Fear To Charisma(http://www.seductiontuition.com/speed-seduction) stuff doesn't take more than 10 minutes anyway.

Finally, I must take you to task for one small thing: once you have these women noticing and even approaching you, use the Speed Seduction� language stuff to close the deal, my man! It's great that these women are looking at you, longingly, with lust in their eyes, but you STILL have to take action and work the plan, my man.

If you are stuck on what to say to get it going, check out my fabulous:
Gold Walk Up DVD/Video(http://www.seductiontuition.com/speed-seduction).

Come to think of it, these two products make a fabulous combination for a guy to radiate incredible attraction without even opening his mouth and THEN knowing exactly what to say to meet the girl and get moving straight to the bedroom door!

Piece and peace,

Ross Jeffries

P.S. Tomorrow, Oct 30, is a very, very special day in my life, because it is the birthday of an amazing human who has really made all the work I share with you guys possible. Watch for an email about the greatest teacher I have ever met and ever known.

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Confessions Of A Seduction Guru

seduction @ BusyThumbs — Sun, 30 Mar 2008 01:40:05 +0000

Just a short while ago I had an unusually negative experience which requires me to confess.

Actually, I've been building to this negative experience for days, without consciously realizing.

You see, as I have preached time and again, you have to daily practice the attitudes, beliefs, energy and yes(I know this sounds "New Age") patterns of breathing that give you the confidence and charisma to attract women, anytime, anywhere, often without evening opening your mouth first!

But, the past week, I've been so-fired up, attending to some great new ideas for my business that I have not been practicing what I preach.

Yes, your good Old Guru of Poon deserves a well placed kick in his ass for being a hypocrite and NOT practicing.

Well, today I got that kick.

You see, when I got up today, I just wasn't feeling "right". I was tired, cranky, not in touch with my usual energy, and as a result, when I was "sarging" this morning, having my daily Starbucks coffee

Every Sarge Fell Flat!

Yes, I confess. Even your Guru is a human and has to practice, all the time, to stay in the best state of mind.

And your state of mind; your energy, beliefs and the attitude your project are very important.

They are like the conductive medium; the wire if you will-across which you send the electricity of your spoken words.

So don't be a goof like me. Practice what I teach you, daily. Do the breathing, the meditation, and the visualizations daily(and take care of your body with some good exercise too) and you will see daily results that will astonish you.

And if you want to find out more about how to radiate a confidence, charisma and energy that has women approaching you, just go right here:
http://www.seductiontuition.com/speed-seduction

You'll learn a quick, ten minute, daily breathing/energy/visualizing ritual that will make you a true winner with women. And don't be a lazy, good-for-nuthin' ass like your Guru sometimes is.

GET OUT THERE AND DO IT!

Piece and peace,
Ross Jeffries

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Ouch That Hurt

seduction @ BusyThumbs — Sun, 30 Mar 2008 01:37:14 +0000

The other day, I was doing some fabulous Combat Conditioning exercises, as taught by the incredible Matt Furey.

Being a fairly sedentary(a big word that means lazy ass) person, having a quick, fun work-out that I can do that actually makes me functionally fit, really feels good.

But today, contrary to Matt's advice, I over did it a bit, and as a result, I'm pretty sore.

Now, what in the world does this have to do with pulling hot women?

Simply this; in the beginning, when starting something new, pace yourself.

Look, as a human, you can learn to do pretty much anything, IF you do things gradually.

Too many guys, when they order their Speed Seduction Home Study Course
(http://www.seductiontuition.com/speed-seduction)try to jump in and do the hardest stuff first.

For example, even if they haven't had a woman in a decade or even talked to one in the same length of time, they want to go right out, approach the hottest woman in town, and try to get her in the sack in a matter of minutes.

Now, far be it from me to discourage ambition, and using Speed Seduction� you can and will get these kind of results.

But my stronger suggestion is: start out slow. Take one or two basic concepts from the course, and apply them every day. Even if you only improve 1 percent a day, by the end of a couple of months, you'll be bouncing from girl to girl like a rabbit on a double frappucinno mocha latte, extra whip!

Anyway, if you want the power, confidence and charm to pick the women you choose, instead of relying on canned pick-up lines, trite dating tips and stupid dating advice, why don't you learn to throw dating away and get the women you want jumping on you before you even go out? Thousands of guys around the world are doing so right now, and the first step is going right here: http://www.seductiontuition.com/speed-seduction

Piece and peace,

Ross Jeffries

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